Silly thread title I know!
Basically DP and I went to DTD last night but he couldn't erm...get it up properly. I said don't worry we can try again later etc.
He got a bit embarassed and blamed me for not grooming myself, not putting any effort into it and only wanting it when it's baby making time. Ok all of this is true... Is it bad of me??
I felt upset - because it's true. So rolled over and fell asleep.
I don't look after myself anymore because I simply can't be bothered to groom and wear nice undies. I'm always tired and just want to do what needs doing...is this selfish of me?
Yes it's true that I only want to have sex when I'm ovulating because I don't enjoy the sex and his slobbery kisses make me cringe. Also hence why I don't put any effort in as I want it just to be over.
Honest opinions please, but not too harsh
I know this isn't doing DP's self esteem any good but it's not nice for me either and I wish I could change overnight. Because that's what normal people do isn't it, have mad loving sex all the time?!
DP is 29, I'm 25 and we've been together for around 6 and Half years. Have a lovely home and 22 month old DD.
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Do people really enjoy sex with their partners?!
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