This is my first mumsnet post so forgive me if I don't get all the abbreviations. I have been with my husband for 8 years and we have a 6 year old son. He went working abroad over the summer for over 3 months and during that time I felt loney but was so busy with work and caring for our son that the quiet time in the evenings was sometimes comforting.
Since he came back in September I have been lonelier if that's makes any sense?
He is obsessed with the gym and was going 5 nights a week and sometimes at the weekend. If he is not at the gym then he is working late - so late that he sleeps in the spare room because he doesn't want to wake me - I am a light sleeper and don't do well without my sleep.
I nearly walked out a month ago after numerous fights about being left on my own in the evenings. He begged me to stay and arranged to work 2 days per week from home so he can go to the gym during his lunch break and the plan was to spend the evening with me. So far I've had one or two evenings with him and he even said that he was bored.
I am a strong minded woman who works full time and is fiercely independent but lately I feel like a pathetic soppy female craving for her husbands attention. All I want to do is curl up on the sofa and watch tv and drink tea. I would settle for 2 nights per week but tonight is supposed to be my night in with him and he is working. I am really tearful and emotional and feel so alone.
I don't want to leave him because i love him and want to be with him but surely being alone would be better than feeling rejected or so far down the pecking order that I feel about 2 feet high.
I also really want another baby but he is happy with his life the way it is....
He is a good father and helps around the house when I nag, which I hate doing but I am not sure how much more of this I can take.
Sorry for the rant but I need some advise - anyone else felt like this???
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Louise2101 · 19/02/2014 22:58
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