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Online porn in suspicious circumstances

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jadorecakesnbiscuits · 19/02/2014 20:13

My DP is out atleast 4 nights a week keeping various hobbies and visiting his disabled friend, when he is at home he sits on his computer ALOT doing uni work, i feel like he is avoiding me.

Now he is secrative about his money even though we have a baby together, after feeling too suspicious and like something was a miss, i did what we have all done yet all seem to scorn eachother for doing, had a good old root through his phone. usually he clears his browsing history but for the past 3 weeks on a tuesday night when he has been saying he his at his disabled friends he has been watching porn on his phone, he hasnt been coming home for a sneaky wank because im here and our bathroom door fell off over a month ago Grin i hate feeling like im breathing down his neck and i havent brought it up with him as i would be ashamed to admit to snooping but where the heck is he wanking?

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Apocalypto · 19/02/2014 20:47

I have no advice except to say Jesus H Christ on a bike....

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Fairenuff · 19/02/2014 20:56

In the shower?

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ToddlerHoover · 19/02/2014 20:59

Oh I remember you. He's the one having an affair with his disabled male friend, amirite?

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Logg1e · 19/02/2014 21:01

Why do you think he's not watching porn with his friend? Sorry, his disabled friend.

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fluffyraggies · 19/02/2014 21:07

In the car?

Would he not watch porn while sat at a friends house?

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gildedcage · 19/02/2014 21:11

what annoys you most, the porn or not knowing where he's wanking. It sounds like there are bigger issues I.e he avoids you and is secretive.

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Apocalypto · 19/02/2014 21:13

Depending on how disabled the friend is he could be standing behind him and wanking there.

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fiftyandfab · 19/02/2014 21:17

May I ask how the bathroom door fell off, and why it's still off?

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Fairenuff · 19/02/2014 21:20

Is it relevant that the friend is disabled? I feel like I am missing something here Confused

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Logg1e · 19/02/2014 21:20

You mean the DISABLED friend, fairenuff?

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AnyFuckerHQ · 19/02/2014 21:22

is there some subtext I am not aware of here ? Grin

should I ignore my own rather disturbing one ?

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fiftyandfab · 19/02/2014 21:23

DO share your own disturbing one AF!

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Fairenuff · 19/02/2014 21:24

Ah c'mon, let me in

< stamps foot >

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forumdonkey · 19/02/2014 21:26

Haven't you had previous threads regarding your DP and his hobbies and spending time with his friend OP?

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Back2Two · 19/02/2014 21:28

Never have a good old root whilst going through someone's phone.
You might end up with an injury. Or disabled even.

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AnyFuckerHQ · 19/02/2014 21:29

if I did that, FAF, I would have to kill you afterwards Smile

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fiftyandfab · 19/02/2014 21:36

hahahah AF....you do make me smile!! Wink

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