I posted about a month ago (sorry don't know how to link!) that my husband was leaving for a week trial separation.
I instigated a second week & then started to feel that he would probably never come back & he didn't, his choice. I did take some control, which made me feel better (thanks to mnetters!) but I feel so hollow, sad, lonely & alone. I'm pretty sure that us parting is the right thing to do, I'm just really struggling with my feelings.
I think I read on here to expect a year of roller coaster emotions. For me its those blasted lovely memories that keep pulling me back. I woke up at 2am last night playing out our wedding dance in my head! Then couldn't sleep.
We have two DS 7 & 4. We were married 8yrs, together 20yrs. We are in contact & he is seeing the boys 3/4 times a week. I'm getting to the gym & seeing friends. I just feel like I'm going through the motions. I've got great support but it still feels so terribly tragic. Any words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated!
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mashedpotatohead · 19/02/2014 12:15
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