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How old we're you when you lost your big V

139 replies

Flowerybitch · 10/02/2014 20:39

I was 14 and when I look back now I was soo young but thought I knew everything, lasted 2 minutes and really not all it was cracked up to be. Has anyone got any horror stories about their first time they would like to share :-)

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supadupapupascupa · 10/02/2014 20:40
  1. no horror story :-)
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AcaciaBeez · 10/02/2014 20:40

16
I don't know why but I didn't really talk about it with my friends at the time and don't know if that's early late or normal!

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honeybeeridiculous · 10/02/2014 20:41

18, led a sheltered life!

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yegodsandlittlefishes · 10/02/2014 20:45

20

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tilliebob · 10/02/2014 20:45

16, to my boyfriend of over a year. Now my husband of over 20 years. I had a really wild youth.....Wink

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RhinestoneCowgirl · 10/02/2014 20:46

17, in a tent, on a school trip...

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HairyGrotter · 10/02/2014 20:47

16, although I was groomed. This was understood to be the case many years later, but it was a 'nice' experience as far as losing virginity goes, at the time! Ha

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randomfemale · 10/02/2014 20:47

19 and I was in love - no horror story unless you can count the Blush about the bloody sheets.

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Worriedkat · 10/02/2014 20:47

Just 17 like the magazine of the same era

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itsbetterthanabox · 10/02/2014 20:47

17 and I'd been with my bf for a year. He's my fiancé now Smile

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Flowerybitch · 10/02/2014 20:48

Tilliebob- that's lovely :-)

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Neeliethere · 10/02/2014 20:50

16 and it was planned to happen on my 16th Birthday. I realise now that I was probably groomed too. He was about 4 years older than me. It wasn't too good though.

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tilliebob · 10/02/2014 20:52

Cheers Flowery - I usually get a load of negativity and "ooh imagine only being with one person" guff from people who tend to be trying to convince themselves rather than offending me. I had no idea we'd still be together all these years later at the time, it's just the way life happened!

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IsTheGrassGreener · 10/02/2014 20:52
  1. Have always been very shy. No horror stories to tell, except that at age 17 I was sexually assaulted and nearly raped by a guy I shared a tent with for the night (against my wishes, no alternative).
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NaffOrf · 10/02/2014 20:53
  1. As was he. I was in lurrve. We were together for two years. He was luffly.
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Gileswithachainsaw · 10/02/2014 20:54
  1. ONS Blush hurt like hell
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Busybusybust · 10/02/2014 20:54

19 and I married him, and stayed (mostly) happily until he died 24 years later!

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ItStillLooksLikeRainDear · 10/02/2014 20:54

21, and 19 years later we're still together. 16 years married with 2 DC.

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Lastofthepodpeople · 10/02/2014 20:54
  1. It was quite painful (but consensual), and I remember thinking quite clearly afterwards: well, I'm not going to do that again
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HeyMicky · 10/02/2014 20:55
  1. To an American marine while I was backpacking in Italy smug
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Flowerybitch · 10/02/2014 20:57

It didn't hurt too much and only bled a little, realising how young I actually was reading the comments :-/

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Finabhear · 10/02/2014 20:57

19 he was beautiful and I was in love. It was fun :)

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Flowerybitch · 10/02/2014 20:58

Heymicky - sounds like a film...

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TheMumsRush · 10/02/2014 20:58

17 and in love with my then bf, still friends with him now :)

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expatinscotland · 10/02/2014 20:58
  1. No horror story, it was great!
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