Iv never did this before but i feel i really need advice as i dont know who to turn to! iv been with my husband nearly 15 years and married for 8 with 2 sons, I'm 32 and my husband is 43. We decided to have his family over for a night out..his 2 nephews 18 and 19 (his brothers sons) along with his niece aged 28 (who isn't his brothers daughter but he brought her up for 20 years) anyways we all went out and had good night and ended up going back to ours for a few drinks afterward, my husbands niece (who isn't blood related to him) got really sick and her younger brother looked after her and made sure she was ok and then I told him to put her in my bed so she could have a sleep so he did that and came back down stairs. About half an hour or so after he did this my husband said he would go to check on her and failed to return back downstairs, I sat for about an hour chatting with my nephews when I decided to go to bed and to my horror i saw my husband in our bed under the covers with her but both looked as if they were sleeping (or were they? Maybe the heard me coming up the stairs) I automatically thought that this was very inappropriate that both of them were in the same bed so i went into my sons room and lay on his bed with all sorts racing through my mind then shorly after I heard her get out my bed and go downstairs so I went through to my room where my husband was lying with his jeans undone ( they wernt down but the button and zip was undone) I confronted both of them and they deny that anything happened..! But previous to this on a holiday the year before I overheard him tell her she was good looking and if she wasn't a family member that he could of quite easily have gotten with her "he told her this as she cried over the broken ralationship to the father of her children ended" so was he saying this to make her feel better about herself or is there more to it after them ending up in the same bed? She is insisting she woke up in bed with him beside her and she left the room as soon as she saw him but she tried to say the next morning that she wasnt in bed with him at all and now shes changed her story when i said i saw with my own eyes! so maybe nothing happened and she did leave as soon as she saw him then then i think well what was his intensions for getting into the same bed and undoing his zip and button? i feel betrayed, heartbroken and don't know what to do next!
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