I've been single for 3 years - my last partner led a double life with another female all the time I was with him.
I recently had a 2 year 'thing' (don't count him as a bf as it never really was serious from his side) with a narcissist who left me broken but I've managed NC with him so I'm now ready for a new relationship.
I have four children (2 adults DCs and 2 younger ones) and I do think that puts a lot of men off to be honest.
I've recently become friendly with a guy who I have loads in common with, he is very keen to take me out but I'm not sure because I just don't fancy him. At all. Not one bit.
He is a lovely kind man and, to be honest, I'm quite lonely just now and would really like someone nice in my life.
Would it be doomed from the start because I feel no attraction to him? Or am I being shallow? After my past two partners I should appreciate a genuinely nice normal man...... Right?
Any advice would be appreciated, I'm very confused.
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Ghirly · 27/12/2013 03:24
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