I found out my fiancé was seeing someone else for the first 7 years we were together! It's now nearly 11 years. So he has only managed 4 years of fidelity.
I'm so messed up. I don't know what to think or feel or say. I've only told a couple of people and one said that as it was so long ago and he obviously chose me then I've nothing to worry about. But I'm so angry, and sad, and confused and numb. To me this is very new.
How am I supposed to deal with it?
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How do you cope after an affair?
drinkyourmilk · 18/12/2013 19:28
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