DH and I had a rare chance to go out for a couple of pints at our local pub tonight. The long and the short of it is that we have argued and he has gone off, who knows where. Don't know when he will be back, if at all, he's just walked off. We have two DC, a 5yo and a 1yo. My mum is over for a couple of days so fuck know what she'll think. I don't know what to think but I'm sorely tempted to put my keys into the back of the door so he has to wake me up to get back in (I haven't, I'm just pissed off).
We argued about him going out on Friday night: I wanted to know that he'd be okay on Saturday to do Xmas preparations and he took this to mean that I wasn't okay with him going out at all and that I was policing his fun. I'm not innocent in this: I was probably petulant, nagging and annoying: I just want to get some of my own Xmas prep done. I work part time but toddler DD means that I can't just do what I want on my "days off" and the weekends are really full.
Clearly DH is at the end of his tether (he's had a shit time at work recently but actually so have I) but who the fuck does he think he is to just decide that he's not going to be there for the DC in the morning? I don't get that choice. Plus, I'm worried about him for himself as well: he at least knows where I am, even if he's really pissed off with me right now, whereas he could be anywhere as far as I know, plus it's cold out and he's had 4 pints.
Can I have a hand hold please? And please no LTB, he apparently just did that.
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Yeah, so we all have the option of just wandering off into the night.
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openerofjars · 18/12/2013 00:23
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