can you just ask someone for sex?

[secretsatan]

If you suspect that someone fancies you, how wrong is it to just ask them if they'd like some sex?

I'm not up for a relationship at all. But I'd really like some sex.

I don't think subtle is going to work. Or at least it will take too long. Or they might think I want to go out with them.

remind me how this works. It's been a while.

[YoureBeingASillyBilly]

Are you both single for starters?

[SPsDoesntLikeChaffingFishnets]

You been like a FWB situation? I don't even no how mine started so no idea. It was a long time ago though.

[SPsDoesntLikeChaffingFishnets]

You could shout across a crowd 'Yo/Oi, wanna bang?'

[YoureBeingASillyBilly]

But you have to mime hip thrusting while you do it.

[picnicbasketcase]

Absolutely. 'Sex me up, buttercup' usually works.

[BOF]

I think it's widely regarded as a bit of a social faux pas.

[MistAllChuckingFrighty]

Could you try making a round hole with one hand and poke your finger through it, whilst winking and licking your lips ?

Worth a pop ?

[SoleSorceress]

Open your legs, show him your foof!

[secretsatan]

ROFL I'll work on the thrusting.

No "would you be interested in coming over for a night of drinking and activities up to and possibly including recreational sex?"...

that's not how you do it huh?

[SPsDoesntLikeChaffingFishnets]

Or sing 'lets talk about sex baby, lets talk about you and me' at them

[SPsDoesntLikeChaffingFishnets]

Straight to the point might work. I was giving you subtle suggestions obviously

[SPsDoesntLikeChaffingFishnets]

Save some words and say:

'wanna get pissed and shag?'

[secretsatan]

SoulSource it's not summer anymore, but I'll put that one in the 'Car Park' for later.

[BillyBanter]

just say 'Grab your coat, love. You've pulled'

Depends how you normally interact with each other.

[scaevola]

Is it a friend or a random?

[secretsatan]

Acquaintance. And yes, single :)

[secretsatan]

I feel like Ralph on the fast show.

[SPsDoesntLikeChaffingFishnets]

Well you first need to find out of he is interested in you. Then feel free to go thrusting in his direction

[scaevola]

You do need to say something really filthy to him, and see if he looks interested or recoils.

[YoureBeingASillyBilly]

How about asking if they want to do a little dance, make a little love and finally go get down tonight?

[GoofyIsACow]

at this thread!

[SPsDoesntLikeChaffingFishnets]

Or mention the film Friends With Benefits and say how you would love something like that.

Yes, I am the queen of been subtle

[Weegiemum]

I'm thinking of trying some of these on my dh!

(Purely for the then it would elicit).

Sadly, he's working tonight!

[secretsatan]

Filthy. OK.

They don't have to do that on The West Wing, do they? Maybe I should buy him a fish. On telly it's all grown ups flirting in intellectual ways and they still get past the awkwardness and on to the fucking.

[QuintessentialShadows]

I suggest you just look at him. Then lean over for a kiss. Let it develop into a snog. You will find out from how you both react to this, if the sex is a go or a no go.