Name changed. Have posted about my friend who does not put in as much effort as me, over the years.
We've been trying to speak on the phone for about 2 weeks leaving each other messages. She left me a message last night when I was still at work so I tried several times to call her once I was home. It was engaged for hours. She called me this morning and said sorry but she'd had 2 long phone calls last night. When she called this morning I was in the middle of something ( really was) and said I'd call back asap in about 10 minutes. She's already told me she only had 40 mins before she had to go out. I've tried calling her constantly for the last 30 mins and it's engaged. AIBU to think that unless these calls she is making or receiving are a matter of life or death she ought to have not answered her phone to anyone, or cut the calls short because she knew I'd be calling her back? Just so pissed off with her lack of availability and putting everyone else first it seems.
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goldenleaves · 07/11/2013 10:31
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