Regular but have nc..
Back story...
Had a very on/off relationship with a guy for a few years. We decided to call it quits for good when he was offered a new job a few hours away from me. Things weren't really going anywhere so it was a mutual end. He left then I found out I was pregnant. We tried to make things work but I think it really drove us apart. I was single through out the pregnancy (he showed little interest and even met someone else). Gave birth with very little support from him and he saw dd twice when she was born. We didn't speak for almost a year when he got back in touch asking to see her. I told him to get lost and he didn't contact me again until 5 months ago when again he got in touch asking to see her. After a lot of talking back and forward I agreed. I was very hesitant to see him at first as I had so much anger towards him but knew I had to put it aside for dd sake. So me and dd met him last week for the first time since he last saw her when she was born 2 years ago. Straight away it was like nothing had ever happened and I felt myself relax in his company. It's only now a few days on that I'm starting to worry that all my feelings that I ever had for him are going to come flooding back, but I know I can't have him, I don't even think he would be interested.
Can anyone relate and how did you cope with these feelings?
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thanksforthememories · 27/10/2013 20:11
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