i was with my husband for 12 years and we have been divorced for nearly 2. We have 2 children.
it was a very painful split....from my POV, he drank too much, stayed out without telling me, didn't take responsibility for anything, I suspected he had affair(s) but never any definite proof etc
I eventually realised i couldnt live like that, it was making me ill. But I still love him I think. I dont want to be with anyone else. And I think I cling to the thought of our relationship IYKWIM?? I can still feel the feeling of him and me together....Im still in contact with his family and friends (they live abroad) and we were planning to visit them together next year (to take the kids) I miss his family and his country...
He left his phone at my house today by accident. I read his text messages. He has a girlfriend. He hasnt told me about her. Im in bits...
What the hell...I don't know how to sort myself out
day to day im ok...im doing positive stuff career wise and my and the kids are happy. But I feel really really really lost. I feel really adrift. Like, there is no purpose
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reallyhurtz · 27/10/2013 18:34
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