I recently separated from my partner of 3 years because he was a massive twat.
I have dd1 from a previous relationship and we habe dd2 together.
we have been civil towards each other and he has been visiting the kids a couple of times a week.
I called him earlier today to ask if he would mind giving me and dcs a lift to the supermarket. dd2 has been in and out of hospital the past week with bronchiolitis (sp?) so I havent had a chance to get to the shops. He took the car when we split up so I rely on public transport now.
he said that he could take me tomorrow because he would like to take me and the dcs out for a meal tonight.
I said that would be great and he would pick us up at 6.
I have had several texts over the past half hour saying that he has called the all you can eat buffet in advance to warn them I was coming so they could put more food out, that I should go and buy some bigger clothes because I always look ridiculous and embarrass him, that I need to give him some petrol money because the heavier the car is, the more fuel it uses.
I feel so and now
ive lost a stone the past 2 weeks and start the Cambridge plan again on tuesday so the weight is coming off but I just feel awful now. im currently 5'8 and a size 20
I told him to fuck the fuck off so now ill have to go to the supermarket in the pouring rain on the bus to get stuff for tea.
I hate how even after we have split he can still make me feel so low and worthless
I thought I was doing well, obviously not.
any advice about future contact?
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Ex invited us out for a meal - feel awful now
awakemysoull · 27/10/2013 16:56
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