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So AnyFucker calls a tit, a tit...

(33 Posts)
AthelstaneTheUnreadyFucker Wed 23-Oct-13 22:22:28

... and that's not on. But it's ok to BE a tit? Just not point at it?

Is that right? confused

FlaseFuckerSpider Thu 24-Oct-13 10:36:21

wellwobbly Was she calling you a child abuser for allowing your dc to live with a bastard? Nothing wrong with being mentally ill, did she mean that she thought you were depressed and she visit the GP?

spickle Are you ok now?

I think AF has her heart in the right place, she can be spot on most of the time, she can get it wrong at times like any human, and everyone should remember that.

Spickle Thu 24-Oct-13 10:07:26

Worcestershiresauce ditto here (also namechanged).

So she's just been banned for a week? No worries then...Just 7 days after all. Hope AF enjoys the week off

Wellwobbly Thu 24-Oct-13 09:41:05

Worcestershiresauce I also got it in the neck from AF when I was at a low point. I got told I was mentally ill, a child abuser and it got completely out of hand.

I took it on the chin.

AF turned out to be right in the end. But I pushed back (not retaliated) and stood my ground, did it in my own time, no harm done.

FlaseFuckerSpider Thu 24-Oct-13 09:37:31

What a riot it was last night on MN, and all along she wasn't banned, just having a rest for a week.

Waves to trish.

trish5000 Thu 24-Oct-13 09:16:04

I doubt that that thread will go pfft if Justine has posted all over it.

EdithWeston Thu 24-Oct-13 08:45:59

It's a pity MNHQ have chosen a thread which will go pfft for their response.

When there was, say, the DBF ban outcry, at least they posted in a permanent forum (I checked yesterday, to see if there was precedent for providing reasons. There was).

BurberryFucker Thu 24-Oct-13 08:44:28

bring back anyfucker i say

Meerka Thu 24-Oct-13 08:39:20
BOOsterseatforAnyFucker Thu 24-Oct-13 08:25:53

AF calls a spade a spade and I like that! There are plenty of posters who do softly softly incredibly well but I also think that type of approach needs plain talking balance sometimes.

There isn't anyone here who is perfect, but I would like to make a guess that AF has helped more than she has hindered.

Waves at Trish

captainmummy Thu 24-Oct-13 08:22:17

She's been banned?

Oh well. Tessa6 gives even better advice, I've found and she isn't offensive or arrogant with it.

trish5000 Thu 24-Oct-13 08:21:24

Yes. Thought you were on it! Its been moved to Relationships and has the word invisible in its title. Perhaps you didnt see it! Thats how much I do notice you around. thought you were everywhere! grin

Apologies to the op for derailing. I will shut up now.

deepfriedsage Thu 24-Oct-13 08:18:17

Oh not looked at wave threads, is that following on from Hullys thread of invisible posters?

trish5000 Thu 24-Oct-13 08:02:05

From what Justine said, it looks like AF has been doing a lot of things wrong for a very long time. AF has apologised and will be back.

trish5000 Thu 24-Oct-13 07:55:37

Thanks deepfriedsage. btw, I do notice, and did notice you around, even before the wave threads wink

deepfriedsage Thu 24-Oct-13 07:47:40

Justine posted on the chat thread asking for mnhq response to fuckergate.

VoodooHexDoll Thu 24-Oct-13 07:45:33

What happened?

Where is AF?

trish5000 Thu 24-Oct-13 07:45:11

Ginger. A personal attack is a personal attack.

Yes, she does some great work, but if she can cut down or out the personal attacks that will be better. Think she will now, after being banned.

Anyone know where Justine's answer has been posted? On which thread? Thanks

Lweji Thu 24-Oct-13 07:44:09

You're behaving like a tit.
Not you're a tit.

It's not that hard.

The rules are there for a reason and nobody should be immune sorry.

It's a bit like Dexter. He kills serial killers, but it doesn't make it lawful or desirable.

I hope AF will be back and able to dish out her good advice, as many others, without the need for name calling.

deepfriedsage Thu 24-Oct-13 07:42:41

No wonder you nc, you must have been hammered. Weare human and AF is not perfect.

ginslingingfucker Thu 24-Oct-13 07:40:19

just checking in with the name - ginslinger as was

She got it wrong in my case (I've name changed since). Once one of a bunch of posters who really hurt me when I was at my lowest point. She's great if it really is a LTB situation. Not so great if the area is a little more grey. Extreme that she has been banned, but this is a board to support women, not kick them when they are down.

deepfriedsage Thu 24-Oct-13 06:15:40

She has got it wrong a few times and realises as time goes by. Mostly she is spot on.

GingerBlondecat Thu 24-Oct-13 05:42:35

Is it really a 'Personal attack' when it is well deserved ?

LineRunner Wed 23-Oct-13 23:48:36

I hope she will be back soon, too.

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