Hey
Might sound like an odd question, but bear with me.
First of all, my gf is gay, I'm bi. Although since being with her I'm starting to sway more towards being gay.
So that's how she sees herself now, but she's only ever been with men before me, but says that's simply because she was very much in the closet and was almost ashamed of her feelings. She couldn't be more opposite now.
We're been together a while now and I asked her if she ever actually enjoyed sex with a man if she now sees herself as gay. She said not really, but she would usually be able to orgasm. Now, I'm genuinely not judging. I understand that sexuality is a very complex thing and I don't believe it's as black and white as straight, gay, bi. However, I find it difficult to see how you could have sex with the wrong sex for you and still be able to orgasm. She says it's just the general act and that she could have done a better job herself and that doesn't mean that she finds herself sexually attractive Fair point I suppose.
So to sum up, I'm not judging and I'm not really concerned, but I was wondering what the general opinion was.
Can a gay person ever enjoy sex with someone of the opposite sex?
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makemineatripple · 10/10/2013 12:36
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