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DP attacked me, think I have consussion.

(190 Posts)
MrsRajeshKoothrappali Mon 16-Sep-13 11:55:13

He's downstairs playing GTA, refused to drive me to A&E.

Feeling really sick. Head is thumping and am really dizzy. Can't stop crying.

He grabbed the hair at the roots on the top of my head and shook really hard.

I want to go to sleep but am scared I'll die.

sad

What do I do? Should I just beg him to help me?

BoreOfWhabylon Mon 16-Sep-13 12:13:25

Ring 999 for ambulance. Tell them you have been attacked, are feeling sick and dizzy and the attacker is still in the house. Ambulance will come but will send police in first to deal with 'D'P.

Do it now!

VoiceOfRaisin Mon 16-Sep-13 12:16:49

If you don't have a phone, PM several of us your address (sorry not me as I don't really know how to do them) and we will call the police and ambulance for you.

MrsRajeshKoothrappali Mon 16-Sep-13 12:17:48

I got a taxi to local Minor Injuries.

Your posts are making me cry.

I feel awful. Head is killing me.

Lots of other people waiting so not alone.

GeekLove Mon 16-Sep-13 12:17:52

Please get this seen to ASAP. He has committed a criminal offence and assaulted you and therefore cannot be trusted around you and any children present.

RhondaJean Mon 16-Sep-13 12:18:02

Oh bloody hell. If you are shouting out of the window, shout fire, not help, but please let us know you are okay as soon as you can.

RhondaJean Mon 16-Sep-13 12:18:48

Oh phew.

VivaLeThrustBadger Mon 16-Sep-13 12:21:58

What did he say when you left? Does he know where you've gone? Can you ring a friend to be with you?

captainmummy Mon 16-Sep-13 12:22:06

Well done MrsRK - get it all on file! If they ask (and they will) tell them what happened! At the very Least it will be on record.

Ilovemydogandmydoglovesme Mon 16-Sep-13 12:23:53

Glad someone is with you.

Please let us know how you area and what happens.

Big unMN hugs. flowers

keepcalmandkickon Mon 16-Sep-13 12:24:41

Well done for getting to the doctors!! Make sure you tell them what has happened and they record it. You have been amazingly brave and can do this!

MrsRajeshKoothrappali Mon 16-Sep-13 12:25:14

Don't have anyone to call.

My local friends ditched me when I had a nervous breakdown last year.

Other friends are miles away.

wifey6 Mon 16-Sep-13 12:25:18

Massive hugs MrsRK. You've done the right thing going to hospital, for your own safety & this incident will now be on file.

Ilovemydogandmydoglovesme Mon 16-Sep-13 12:29:16

Oh sorry MrsRK o thought you meant you had people with you.

Where are you?

Gruntfuttock Mon 16-Sep-13 12:30:16

You have told them at the hospital exactly what happened, haven't you? I really think the police need to be involved, for your own protection. It's important. I am so sorry that this has happened to you.

If you're local to me I will leave the kids with DP and come and sit with you if you are. I am in the Solihull area.

IslaValargeone Mon 16-Sep-13 12:31:16

Where do you live Mrs. Raj?
There is bound to be a MNetter who can come and be with you.

IslaValargeone Mon 16-Sep-13 12:31:36

I'm in Lancs btw.

Ilovemydogandmydoglovesme Mon 16-Sep-13 12:32:00

I'm in Suffolk.

PopiusTartius Mon 16-Sep-13 12:33:49

Please tell them what happened. Don't put up with this. You could have a better life x

NeopreneMermaid Mon 16-Sep-13 12:34:02

You must tell the medical staff exactly what happened. This thug must not be in your house ever again.

IslaValargeone Mon 16-Sep-13 12:34:48

Just checked her profile, she's in the West Country if anyone is around?

EldritchCleavage Mon 16-Sep-13 12:35:07

Oh Mrs.RK. I'm so sorry.

Courage, my dear. And ring one of those friends from miles away and just talk while you wait. Even if you don't tell them what happened, just talk to someone who cares about you and take strength from that.

NeopreneMermaid Mon 16-Sep-13 12:37:07

Can you call or email Women's Aid before you leave? 0808 2000 247 helpline@womensaid.org.UK

MrsR if you are at RUH I can come and wait with you. You do not deserve this

Ilovemydogandmydoglovesme Mon 16-Sep-13 12:41:11

How are you MrsRK?

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