When I was in my abusive marriage (a whole other thread!) I used to read the relationship boards but not post. Why? Because although I knew I should leave and I wanted to leave I wasn't quite there yet.
Anyone who has never been in that position doesn't quite understand the power that other person has over you. You hate them and love them in equal measures, you can't leave because you feel dependent but you cry almost daily.
So this thread is a safe place. To talk without judgement and with NO ONE PERMITTED TO SAY LTB. You know you need to, that's enough. We can give advice on how to get yourself sorted / protect yourself or just chat, whether you are preparing to get yourself out, know you need to one day or want to hold someone's hand check in here.
I wish someone had made a thread like this when I needed it. Hopefully this will help someone out there.
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Arsehole of a 'D'P / 'D'H
MotherOfDragon · 07/09/2013 21:08
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