Looking for some votes here for or against while I decide what to do.
Two years ago I was helping organise a charity event and somebody who didn't know I was the chairman of the volunteer sports club involved was obnoxious to me. Gratuitously rude and insulting. I withdrew with dignity and said to her "I hope you never want to join our Club in the future". She didn't know at the time I was senior management.
Now two years later she has applied to join with her new partner and I could "black ball" her. She has friends who have begged me not to, she has turned over a new leaf, she is with a new man etc etc.
I have done stupid things myself in the past, and maybe I should give her the benefit of the doubt. But already she has upset me again with this, and I will have to socialise with her for years potentially.
So do I block her application and look petty? Or be the bigger person and say nothing? This is a very small place...
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Really annoying person I could get my own back on... but should I?
LemonDrizzled · 06/09/2013 13:47
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