New to MN. Three years ago my beloved partner of ten years had a mid life crisis and left me for a much younger woman who he has since married.
It has been simply horrendous for me and DC (now 12 and 10).
I have been completely focused on my children and getting through this.
Nearly a year ago I met a wonderful man and while I was very wary at first this has grown into a lovely relationship that makes both of us happy.
Now I want things to move on but dd (10) is furious at the idea of my having a man in my life, my son (12) likes my new man very much and is fine with me having met him. Dd is hostile, very upset and feels threatened though of course I have no intention of moving him in or making any radical changes yet. We see eachother about once a week, at his end as we live 40 miles apart.
I feel desperate to make it all OK but she is intractable. I also feel that I do not want to forgo this happiness after the misery of my xdp's betrayal and departure.
Can anyone advise me or share their experiences please as I am at my wits end. Thanks.
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GD very hostile to my new relationship please help.
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Ripley89 · 30/08/2013 16:33
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