Posted before about dp's EA which I told him had to end along with all further contact. He agreed to do this and since then I have tried my best to trust him since.
I have had a couple of times since where I feel as though he is hiding something due to him being very protective of his phone.
So tonight I did a very silly thing and picked his phone up to check it. He has gone and put a password on it!!
I am well aware that I shouldn't have tried to check it but he has never had a password on it before and when I found out about the EA I wasn't checking the phone she happened to text whilst I was stood next to the phone so I read the first line without knowing what would unfold.
Obviously I can't now ask him why but as soon as he came into the room he instantly picked it up. He couldn't find it the other day before he went out and was panicking and searching for it everywhere before he would leave.
Just now it showed a message waiting on fb so for all I know they are still communicating even though they have defriended one another.
I feel so so sick and want to cry he has just come in and picked it up and taken it out of the room. I want to believe him but I am having trouble right now.
So as not to drip feed he is on AD and we tried to dtd recently and he couldn't manage to do it but blamed the ADs.
I have no one to talk to in rl and if I read this I would think ltb but I can't and I don't want to hurt out ds as he would be heartbroken
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Trying to trust him but he isn't helping
gingerbreadshoes · 20/08/2013 20:16
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