That's it really. My dh fits some of the criteria.
But I've spent ages trying to discover if he is and just had an epiphany - I'm still unhappy whether he is or not.
Apart from physical safety-I'm aware the bastards can get nasty if they're abusive, does it matter? Isn't being desperately unhappy enough a reason to leave?
Or does an abusive man react differently to the news you're leaving them than a normal non-abusive guy?
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does it matter if i class him as abusive or not?
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cahemo · 28/07/2013 16:20
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