I finally left the marital home after DV. Threatening fists, punching my face (2years ago) financial abuse, emotional abuse, controlling, pushing shoving (over a Year ago). Not letting me have friends
i left with the children (with just their teddies and the clothes we stood up in) to go to my parents (my parents house was not big enough for us all) plus 30mins drove to school, cubs,brownies etc. (sleeping in the floor too so really unsuitable)
4 months later, h finally agrees to move out of family house, goes to his family but has a row with them 4 weeks later and threatened to be back to the family house.
Well he just walked through the door and is now acting like nothing has happened. And we are one great big family. Which we are not.
I asked police for advice and they said as the abuse I was reporting was over 6 months old (and he only broke a tooth not a bone!) then there is nothing they can do (only be here straight away if it happens again). Is my only option to rent a place for my children? I just feel awful for them having to move yet again. He said that we could live in the house until the family house was sold (as his housing was sorted). He lied.
And there is no other property around here we will have to go to another town ( I have to apply for my youngest school place in November to an oversubscribed school hoping we get through on sibling policy).
Sorry it's a long one ....
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bluedoor99 · 14/07/2013 21:22
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