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Another Thread (LoserNoMore...again )

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LoserNoMore Wed 10-Jul-13 16:58:49

Hi, so on another thread but not really much further forward, in fact I feel worse. Anyway I've been to the doctors and have Anti D's and referred to a counsellor. Hopefully these will work.

Thanks to everyone for their support on previous threads and PMs too, it is all very much appreciated.

NoMoreLoser Wed 09-Apr-14 00:12:00

Thank you Baker, that's very kind.

Really nice to hear from you too Lazarus.

lazarusb Tue 08-Apr-14 21:08:52

Hi! brew Nice to see you back, I hadn't forgotten you either. Some posters just stay in your head. I'm glad you and the children are moving forward, I'm sorry your ex is still being a pain in the backside - some things never change wink

It's amazing how much you can learn about yourself in a year on your own smile

BakerStreetSaxRift Tue 08-Apr-14 19:27:19

I remember your thread, I've thought about you a lot since! Glad to hear things are going well for you, you copied so admirably well with what was thrown at you.

NoMoreLoser Tue 08-Apr-14 17:16:04

Hey Fairenuff, thank you. Really nice to hear from you, hope you're well.

A year makes the world of difference.

Fairenuff Tue 08-Apr-14 17:04:05

Hi LNM, so glad you came back with an update, it's good to hear you sounding so happy smile

What a difference a year makes!

NoMoreLoser Tue 08-Apr-14 15:42:37

Ah thanks.

We are good livvy

Job is good and we also moved house which I'm in the middle of painting. Got lots to look forward to.

Ex is still being his usual self wallowing in self pity but no surprise there.

I can't believe it's been a year either, so much has happened. I read my first thread yesterday trying to find this one and was very weird. It kind of took me back to those first initial raw feelings but made me think how far I've come.

Thank you for popping back to say hello; I have been thinking of you. I remember your first post and how strong you've been since then.

Onwards and upwards! thanks

DangerRabbit Tue 08-Apr-14 15:13:57

I remember your original threads! Glad to hear you are doing well

wooly31 Tue 08-Apr-14 15:08:54

I remember you and I'm sure lots of people do too!! You were very brave. Hope the job worked out and you are in a positive place. Thanks for updating - it gives hope.

Livvylongpants Tue 08-Apr-14 12:48:11

I remember you, has it been a year!!! How are you all now

Itsfab Tue 08-Apr-14 12:45:38

I remember you, NML and saw your first post on your first thread. I can't believe it has been a year so goodness knows how you feel.

I hope you are feeling more positive.

NoMoreLoser Tue 08-Apr-14 11:38:11

Thank you smile

middleeasternpromise Tue 08-Apr-14 10:11:33

well done you I love to see people coming through that awful life breaking experience, gives hope to others x

MushroomSoup Tue 08-Apr-14 09:23:31

I'm checking in too! Lovely to hear from you x

Bitofkipper Mon 07-Apr-14 23:24:50

I remember you and what a rotten time you were going through.
Horrible when posters are driven away from their own threads and cut off from the support on offer.
So pleased things are calmer for you.

NoMoreLoser Mon 07-Apr-14 23:11:35

We are all good thank you.

Dc's are doing great, just enjoying the start of Easter holidays.

It's been a very long hard year but things are finally falling into place and we are happy.

Name changed but yes l remember your threads..
How are you and your DC's?

Terrortree Mon 07-Apr-14 22:25:08

I was thinking about you the other day. How are things?

Singingbird Mon 07-Apr-14 22:15:29

I remember your threads. Hope things worked out for you.

NoMoreLoser Mon 07-Apr-14 20:58:12

Taken me ages to find this thread but I just thought I'd pop by. Not sure if anyone will even remember me but thought I'd come on to say hi and thanks to you lovely people who gave me so much support.

I can't believe a full year has passed since my original thread.

flowers

PyroclasticFlo Tue 03-Sep-13 18:15:06

Hi LNM (or NML?) wink I've been off MN for a while, just checking in today for first time in ages and really sorry to see what a tough time you've been having.

It's great to hear that you're in a new job and looking after yourself. As someone else said, don't think about needing to get better soon - there doesn't need to be a time scale. Just treat yourself kindly and use this space to vent / rant / ponder as much as you like.

What a shame someone had to upset you by questioning the truth of what you'd said, this should be somewhere you can come for support.

Sorry I've not been around much lately, but have been thinking of you - big hugs and well done for carrying on, seeking and receiving help. It's all positive, and getting ever more so flowers

tinfoilhat Mon 02-Sep-13 00:44:26

Good to hear from you and so glad you found a new job and that life is moving forward. We are all still here for support/whatever!

skyeskyeskye Sun 01-Sep-13 20:57:39

I've been lurking mainly but I hope you feel much better soon and wish you all the best for your future.

lazarusb Sun 01-Sep-13 19:46:18

Congratulations on the new job flowers I've been looking out for you (although August has been a bit mad!). Have been thinking of you though. Hoping things have settled a bit for you in all areas and you are beginning to move forward one way or another x

Conina Sun 01-Sep-13 02:07:45

Oh NML im so pleased something good has happened. Congratulations on your new job. I was a lurker and typed oyt message after message but I never found the right words. Its why I dont post much - fat fingers, tiny phone and a translation error between brain n screen.

There are other boards you could post on?

Im so pleased youre still here and Im sure Iim one of several who have been lookibg out for you x flowers

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