I've been thinking about contacting an ex to meet for a coffee/drink on neutral ground to get some answers.
We had an intense relationship, for approx 8 months, I fell pregnant but lost the baby, then had some health issues. He left out of the blue, seemed to emotionally crumble beforehand and acted very oddly and said some strange things.
It was all very strange, I was heartbroken and grieving so said some nasty things (nothing to ott, just some home truths) to him. He has not tried to contact me since, even though he knew I needed further operations due to my health issue.
I'm struggling to get my head around it all.
Would it help do you think? Is it needy? It's been about 10 months since we split. Health wise I'm fine, my life is going well and I'm in a good place. But it's this one thing that's bugging me.
What are your thoughts? Should I or shouldn't I?
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WhatWouldBeyonceDo · 10/07/2013 15:27
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