Hi all, have name changed for reasons which will be obvious...
I have a wonderful DP, we have been v happy in all parts of our relationship for yonks, including in the sack. Like most people, this ebbs and flows depending in DC, tiredness etc etc. Mostly though, it?s all good and all within (what I imagine) the usual bounds.
Recently though whilst DTD and in pre DTD fun, he seems to want me to (and having struggled, I can?t come up with a better ways of putting this) put my finger where the sun don?t shine.
This is only sometimes, not always by any means. I guess my question might be, how ?normal? is this, and might it lead on to other things?
Whilst this wouldn?t by my cup of tea, if you see what I mean, I want to make him happy in the sack (as he does me) and am 100% confident in his ?straightness?. It just seems a bit ? out there ? is it?
He would let it lie if it was something I didn?t want to do, and I guess within the bounds of hygiene I wouldn?t have major objections. It just seems odd to me.
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sunnoshine · 10/07/2013 14:37
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