I just don't understand why anyone would do it to the children.
No one is forced to get involved, why not walk away, not answer the text, reply to the email, respond to the flirty look or comment.
My poor girls are finally asleep but still hicuping and so so sad.
I know 100% that the blame lies solely at his door but I just don't get it from the other females point of view, she knew he had us, she must have realised I had married a wanker but why allow herself to get involved, what about the children?
You may be able to tell that I'm raw and hurting this evening and I may well regret posting this but it's all so fucking lonely and such a waste of my life.
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Why do they do it? And why do women get involved when they know there are children going to be hurt?
InTheRedCorner · 09/07/2013 21:46
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