Driving me crazy!
My brother. We are trying to help my mother sort out her affairs, sell house, move in with relative. All very stressful. She's getting very confused and is extremely anxious.
Brother is incredibly PA. Agrees to course of action then completely ignores it. I'm trying to be really transparent about what I'm doing and asking for his input, but he ignores me and does his own thing.
Currently ignoring a request I have made to just make a note of when we are both available/unavailable so that we can divvy up some jobs. I texted him to ask if he got my email and he replies 'Yes!'. But no actual response.
Want to punch a wall. We need to get stuff done but if I have any suggestions or get stuff organised he just ignores me or complains that I'm 'doing stuff'. Last week I asked him if he could stay with mum while I showed the estate agent round. He agreed without any indication he didn't want to do this, then followed us up the stairs leaving my mum on her own.
What do I do? Other than punching the wall.
Have to go to work now but any suggestions welcome.
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Dealing with passive aggressives - any suggestions?
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DeckSwabber · 09/07/2013 09:00
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