I found a second mobile phone yesterday morning, looked through the messages with shaky hands. found sex texts and call conversation logs to one number. The number belongs to a man, not a woman which I would not have been shocked at.
We have been separated but living in same house for financial reasons only for past two years. We have two kids - 16 and 11yrs.
He admits he is seeing a man, and says it is none of my business.
That would be fine, my problem is this - we were married for 18 years and I suspected over the years that he was gay but thought i must be paranoid. Sex life was almost non-existent, the two kids were planned babies.
I'm angry at being used.
I'm scared that he is so cocky towards me about this, he also says don't you dare tell anyone. I wont anyway.
Didn't sleep last night, was riddled with anxiety
he is 53, I am 45
There's nothing to do, i just want him to leave here but he wont
I am sick
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Husband of 18 years is gay
NImom · 13/05/2013 16:26
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