ds married 21 yrs found wife having an affair in jan, this broke up and now she is on match.com dating and laughing about on fb with her friends and leaving it for ds to see. Both their dc are devastated as is my son. He feels 21yrs have gone for nothing as he will end up with not enough money to buy a decent house for himself and children to come and stay. I am sure he is not perfect but he also does not deserve the abusive treatment she is giving him. He is here with us tonight as can only sleep on sofa at his house as hse wont let him tale turn about with their bed. Should I advise him to come here all the time and pay her the money he needs to or should he stay there as he wants to do to be with the dc who are 18 & 15 and taking exams which he coaches them for. At risk of sounding like a toxic all about me parent it is simply that I cant bear to see him so dreadfully upset and hurting. Please help me help him and thanks for reading
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