18 months on, but no sign of divorcing yet.
He utterly HATES me for leaving. Blames me all the time, still so angry with me.
He has the children 50:50 and they are so unhappy sometimes that we split up. They want us back together. They never saw us argue (I was too scared to argue with him!) and because I left the marital home, I think they feel that I 'left them'. :(
I tell them that we aren't getting back together, but they are so unhappy sometimes.
And he still has them half the time. I feel bad about that.
I just need some reassurance tonight that I've done the right thing... I feel like I've just split the children's world in half, and that I've messed them up. I don't see how it helps them, having two lives. I feel as though leaving just helped me.
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18 months on from leaving EA marriage.... did I do the right thing? Spaghetti head...
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financialnightmare · 06/05/2013 22:32
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