On Friday evening I took a call from my Mum, who was ostensibly calling to wish DH happy birthday, but 'dropped into' the conversation how DF has pushed her that morning (she thinks he meant to hit her but he is 80 & frail so didn't manage), she had cut her head and it wouldn't stop bleeding. Earlier in the week he had threatened her with a hammer. I immediately said she should get the injury checked out and to call the police, this kind of thing has happened very infrequently but for as long as I can remember. DM refused and seemed to want to use me as some kind of counsellor... that sounds selfish but I've been listening to exactly the same complaints since I was a child, she won't listen when I offer advise, and I no longer feel it's appropriate for her to offload in this way on her daughter.
Now I've had an email from an Aunt overseas who has spoken to Mum this morning, basically saying how awful my DF is, how I can't let this go on, how I must do something... This has really upset me this morning and I'd like advice on what people think I should do, as this has turned me back into a 7 year old again, I feel scared and horrid just like I used to. For background, I have siblings, one of whom knows exactly what happened and has indicated that I should drop everything and go down to my parents (he is too busy) - I live 150 miles away and have a baby. WWYD?
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DistantDaughter · 28/04/2013 11:23
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