I am feeling really confused. Basically I don't know if I want to start a family right now or not. I cam off the implanon in feb with the view of trying straight away, but because DH sometimes finds sex difficult only had sex twice around my fertile period. The whole 2ww wait I felt worried and stressed that I might be pregnant and that made think I might not be ready. Husband is keen. So, anyway, we had been having a dry period and I was getting upset. So we talk about it and I explain I'm worried we'll never be able to conceive when we want to anyway due to lack of sex. Later that day we dtd but don't use anything. Unlikely I will be pregnant because not fertile time but why do I feel so confused. Husband comes up to me when he comes home and hugs me and ask how I and clotilda (!) are? I respond with what are you on about? And he's saying things like oh just being silly with baby names!!!! He is obviously really keen but I am just so confused about how to feel. Do I just keep dtd without protection and take the attitude what will be will be?
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Skinnywhippet · 23/04/2013 20:21
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