I know there have been threads similar to this one in the past, which I apologise for, but really wanted one of my own. I don't want to say a huge amount about my situation, because I don't want to prejudice what anyone puts (so if you recognise me, please don't out me).
What it amounts to is I think I've gone as far as I can with my marriage. I have put to DH that I have felt rejected for years as a friend, as someone he wants to spend time with and as a lover.
He takes issue with what I've said about feeling rejected as a friend and someone he wants to spend time with. He feels like my expectations are way too high and that I'm trying to create some kind of perfect ideal. He has actually asked me for concrete examples of people who have relationships with small children and them having quality time together and what exactly do I mean by friendship
So I thought maybe post up here under a new name so no one knows me/is informed by anything I've said about myself in the past and ask the following questions.
- How do you know that your significant other loves you?
- Are you friends? How do you know that you are?
- How do you make time for one another?
I don't know if I'll show him this thread yet - but it'll be useful for me so I can see if I'm being realistic in my expectations.
Thanks