Hi Everyone, I have come on here for some advice- I have been with my fiance for nearly three years we have a child together who is 18 months and i have got children from a previous relationship.. I found out I was pregnant and i told him on tuesday this week- since then he has been awful over the phone to me although he claims he isn't saying he can't and won't go through having another baby and that if i really loved him and want to be a family in our new home that we have bought together recently then I will have to terminate the pregnancy. I have cried so much. He is or was my soul mate, the person i thought i could rely on.. I feel awful .. I can't go through with an abortion and live my life with such guilt.
I have been nice, calm. angry, cross, upset and all of these things have had no influence on what he has said.
The man i fell in love with is now willing to turn his back on me, his child ,and my children.
Will this sadness go? Will he come around to the idea of the new baby? I am desperate for advice.. My heart is in a million pieces..
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12 weeks pregnant ,told my fiance and he wants me to have an abortion.. devastated!
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minx1980 · 29/03/2013 23:29
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