Title says it all. He hasn't seen her since beginning of november and prior to that their meeting have been about once every 3-4 weeks for 8hours. He's never had her overnight. Never sent an adhoc text or random phone call just to see how she is. No Christmas card or present. Went away for her birthday. Dd is 2.8. He pays £280 p/m CSA. Dd doesn't talk about him or ask to see him. For 2years I really tried to encourage him but now I can't be arsed it gets me nowhere. There is no court order btw. My dp has been around since dd was 19months and lives with us. Out of her own choice, she calls him daddy. And apart from the obvious biological factor he is in every way her daddy. Am I obliged to keep trying to maintain a link with real dad? Wwyd?
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