Mil was an only child and is the mother of 2 sons. This strikes me as relevant as she is used to getting her own way and cries if she doesn't.
Pil do not have many (any) close friends. Fil fills his time with parish council, gym and looking after his elderly mother. Mil has no activities so sits at home (doesn't drive) and stews over perceived injustices.
The latest injustice is she thinks my parents have been seeing more of the grandchildren than she has. This is incredibly insulting as we have been scrupulous in ensuring that my parents are not favoured and celebrate major occasions altogether. My parents end up with less alone time with the grandchildren as we often see them and my sister at the same time. Anyway mil has decided that this is not the case and is demanding to see more of the children. They are coming at the weekend and she knows that we know she has had a big tantrum.
I am already dreading Christmas, this year we will be going to my parents (last year we were altogether, year before at theirs, year before that altogether) but it will also be our sons first Christmas. She is going to cry when we tell her that we will see her on Boxing Day.
I don't really know what I am asking just want to have a wee rant about her manipulative behaviour really. People who don't know her think she is generous but with us there is always a condition attached to any gift and she loves to tell us that she is changing her will.
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How to manage mil?
mrsXsweet · 09/02/2013 22:25
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