Just trying to come to terms with my husband of 31 years walking out on me and the kids for a 23 year old girl (my husband is just about to turn 55). Just to explain my husband is disabled and has various health problems and I have been his carer for the past 15 years. In October he spent a month in hospital in a psychiactric ward for depression and seizures and this is where he met her. She was actually there for three of the four weeks, and they continued phoning each other when they left and now they say they are in love and my husband has moved in with her and her father (who is the same age as my husband) and her 21 year old brother. He has moved a three hour journey away. My children do not want anything to do with him neither does his family. I am approaching a milestone birthday myself in a weeks time and I never imagined spending it without him. I have so many unanswered questions and the pain is unbearable.
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