I've been married for close to 15 years, it's been up and down for most of this as we are both very different people. I admit up until now we've probably stayed together for the children...now they are almost all teenagers..i'm not sure i can go on any longer.
I do care about my husband, but i dont think either of us have ever been ''in love'' with eachother..and its a very lonely existence. We've not shared a bedroom for over 2 years now, we never go out alone as a couple, we share no common interests or goals in life...
Since turning 40 i've started to question everything..i've not been happy for a long time, and if i'm not, i'm pretty sure he isn't either.
I've tried on numerous occasions to discuss things with him but he either turns on the waterworks or brushes away that there is a problem, when we quite obviously aren't ok. I think maybe its time to call it quits, you only get one life, surely we should both be happy and living it...what will happen when the kids finally move out???
Any advice would be great, thank you.
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Do you think you should stay together for the children??
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hippyJules · 06/02/2013 14:10
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