Long time lurker, please be gentle with me.
So I am married, been with my DH for 7 years. We have a toddler and live away from our family (trying not to out me). My DH spends a fair amount of time away with his job. We are reasonably happily married (other than the usual silly arguments).
Anyway, I have developed pretty strong feelings for one of his friends. Now, before I get flamed I just want to say I would never act on these feelings. My marriage is worth more than a fling (not that this guy would look twice at me anyway!). I can't stop thinking about him. He's the kind of guy who makes every girl feel special. He is everything I used to look for in a man. I am actually devastated that I feel like this. I feel like I am emotionally cheating on my DH, I feel so guilty. This guy comes round to our house sometimes and I feel so rude but I have to avoid him. I can talk to him but find something that needs doing elsewhere in the house. I know it sounds pathetic but I really don't want my DH to sense how I feel about this man. It's so unfair on him. Please help me am I complete cow? I'm tying myself in knots here
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Feelings for another man
CordeliaChase · 05/02/2013 04:01
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