Me and my partner have been together about 9months I'm currently pregnant and we where getting on fine, as the months have gone by issues have come up about his ex, my gut instinct was telling me he wasn't over her, they have a child together so I weren't worried at all about him having contact with his ex but I noticed he seemed to mention her ALOT.
At Christmas we had a row about something his ex in law put on Facebook I posted a thread about it at the time and I really think I should have just ended things then but I do love him and want things to work.
Things where settling a little but we went to his little ones birthday party yesterday and I spent pretty much 3 hrs on my own at a party i know nobody :-( when I looked up at him he'd be looking at his ex, at 1 point I went over to him and we where talking and his eyes weren't on me they where on his ex.
We didn't leave together but he came to mine later with a valentines teddy, some sort of guilty thing I suppose, yesterday as just made my mind up I need to end things but I don't know if I should hold off till baby is born (could be preterm in a weeks time) do it now, or if I should try talk it out with him and see where we can go.
Sorry it's so long winded
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I know I need to end things, finding it hard :-(
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drypond · 27/01/2013 15:29
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