I've done a quick search for threads on this topic but cant find any that include turning down sex.
Have name changed.
This morning I found that DP has been watching porn on his phone either this morning before work, or last night while I was awake. I didn't used to have a huge problem with him watching porn as long as our sex life was ok but its different now.
We've been having problems recently with him not wanting to have sex with me. I am always the one that initiates it and most of the time now he will try and get it over quickly (within 2 minutes) and then refuse to make sure I'm satisfied (sorry I don't know how to put it). I've always had a high sex drive and he did too when I met him.
I talked to him about him turning me down (before I knew about the porn) and he said he's just not interested in sex and has lost his sex drive. Its not even ever on his mind.
We had a baby 6 months ago and I feel so self conscious and unattractive despite making an effort everyday with my makeup and trying to make myself attractive (all for him as I only see him most days)
What do I do? How do I approach the subject with him?
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Hes rejecting sex, blaming low sex drive, but watching porn.
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