Yesterday we had our Xmas family party, which went OK. This morning my mother (who I find difficult, but am ok with on a superficial level) rang and spoke to my husband - I was out. After a few niceties about how the party went she went on to say that she and my dad had been talking about my daughter and that it was a good job that she wasn't married to her boyfriend (that she's been living with for 2 years and loves v. much) as sex means a lot to her (my daughter) and as she wouldn't be getting any at the moment (her boyfriend had a serious car accident a few months ago, and it is taking him a long time to recover and, no, I have no idea if he can have sex or not) she could move on. My husband just said, briefly, how upset he was by her comment and hung up. So ..is this totally bonkers of my mum, or are we being over-sensitive to be angered by this, and how would you react?
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I need to know what other (non involved) people think about this - mother making weird comments
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sonearsofar · 30/12/2012 15:08
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