I'm 32, recently started seeing a new guy (he's 34) and we get on great, he's stayed over at my house twice & I've stayed at his for 2 nights. We're also planning on spending Hogmanay together & will be staying at his house for a few days.
He's such a nice guy, so different from my ex, great with my dogs etc
The only concern I have is that we had a wee fumble in the bedroom last week, & he was 'hard' but then when we went to have sex he went too soft to be able to go further.
We'd have a few drinks so I didn't think much of it although it was a bit awkward.
Then a few days later, the first night I stayed at his house we tried again, but again he was hard during oral, but as soon as we went to have sex he couldn't stay hard enough to get in!! Sorry if this is TMI
We lay cuddling as I didn't want to make a big deal about it & he apologised just saying he was nervous as really liked me & wanted it to be right.
There's certainly no rush & the last thing I want to do is make him feel pressurised to perform so I've never mentioned it again & the last night I stayed we were both tired so had a cuddle & fell asleep.
He's got a 4 yr old child from a previous relationship which he see's twice a week so he's obviously been capable before
I really like him but I've got a high sex drive so hope this isn't going to become a problem.
Any advice or similar experiences in new relationships ?
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Problem in the bedroom
Whathaveidoneoopsie · 30/12/2012 11:41
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