Lubey date, we need details!!
Western I get that re the divorce. Its that thing of wanting to know, but not wanting to ask. Sure it will all be ok though :)
And I'm not going to worry about the car stuff. He thinks I'm stunning, and I seem to make him laugh poor man is clearly both a bit blind and a bit stupid so hopefully a minor detail like not driving won't put him off
Am trying to think of some dating pearls of wisdom, here's a couple:
- Men will often tell you what they're really like, either in their profile, or in messages before you meet.
Red flags include, but not limited to, bitching about their Ex, losing/not maintaining contact with their DC (and being passive/apathetic about it), having unrealistic expectations, ie saying in a profile they are looking for a woman who is , being in contact excessively (constant texting or calling) and/or being needy in relation to contact, ie if you're online and don't instantly message them, they send you a message/text asking if you're ignoring them, or something slightly more PA like 'missing you'
- Following on from 1, people online are not always as they seem.
blurry photos can often (esp if person is fairly attractive) be a sign that they're fake -
Juliette I think suggested that you can search the photo(s) in google images, and if it's on a public website (facebook, twitter, etc) it will come up on there.
Free websites (POF in particular) attract a lot of people who are married but claiming to be single. I have been caught out on this one myself. If they're excessively cagey about personal details (a bit of reticence is normal), only online/in contact with you during working hours, or v v early in the morning/late at night, be on your guard.
That's probably about all my poor tired brain can think of atm... :)