This may be long. I have been married for 7 years, together for 12. We have 2 dds. We met at uni, where he graduated a year before me and found a job. We are fortunate that my dh works in an industry where a house is often offered as part of employment package and so we were able to move in together with no rent/mortgage. I spent a couple of years doing post grad then professional qualifications all the while earning fairly piddly wage as a trainee. Passed exams got qalified and was on ladder to long term career goals. Had dd no 1 then dd2 1 year later. Didnt go back to work aftet mat leave with dd1 as couldnt flexibly work. Company I worked for contacted me after birth of dd2 to ask me back on self employed basis. Am now working 2 days a week. Now to crux of problem! My dh believes, probably correctly, that he contributes more financially. The real problem is that he will throw this 'trump card' on the table during every big argument we have. It makes me feel like shit. Can I get him to appreciate my contribution to the relationship and our family? I should not have to do this, I know but feel that I should try and resolve this rather than walking away. I do love my husband but I cannot live with this lack of respect! What can I do? Thank you in advance for reading or replying
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