I've namechanged as I'm worried my usual name is too recognisable to family and friends.
If there is anyone awake who could hold my hand I would be so grateful.
A friend told me this evening (sat) that last night my DP had been seen "snogging" another woman in a pub. He was out with some friends.
I've confronted him and he initially denied it, but then admitted it.
I'm not sure there is a word for how I feel- shell shocked shocked, sick, panicky.
We've been together 9 years and have a fabulous 5yo DS together. Things have been tense for a few weeks following a disagreement between us, but I fully expected us to be able to work through it.
He has said sorry, but I'm ashamed to admit he doesn't seem very sorry. I confronted him around 11.30pm fully expecting him to be full of remorse but he just kept referring to the fact that we've not been getting on.
I felt so angry that I had to get out of the house (DS is staying with my mum), I'm due to collect him in the morning. I drove round for a bit, and for some reason checked myself into a cheap hotel.
I'm there now, unable to sleep and frantic with not knowing what to do.
I know it's a cliche and people say its not so important but I'm petrified of turning our sweet loving little boy's world upside down. He adores his dad and would be devastated if he was to leave.
I can't believe this is happening, I don't know what to do.
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Anyone there please? DP admitted to kissing someone in the pub.
Owlfright · 25/11/2012 04:23
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