Hi
I have posted about this on AIBU but a quick back ground
Dh has had severe amnesia ( 5 - 10 min memory) for 2.5 years , along with mood swings, depression, lack of empathy, apathy.
my sis and my sil ( his sis) have been incredibly intrusive into his medical care. He NEVER talked about his treatment, avoided it at all costs.
all converstaions with dh and them are "private and confidential"
during these conversations dh has ( apparenlty) asked for :
A second diagnosis
Therapy sessions
access be given to his medical notes
reduction in his medication
all of these were hiden from me , one visit to a therapist even involved my two younger ds ( 9 and 7) being left in a car / car park for an hour unattended and unabel to get back into the therapy building.
He is currently living with his sis ( 3.5 hours away) and since going there has
changed his mobile number twice ( I have no idea what is it)
missed a REALLY important assesment in London that could have lead to a course of treatement that has improved others memories by 90%.
myself and the chidlren can only contact him by leabing messages on sil land line. we have left dozens and dozens. SIl says we have left "less than 10"
He didnt even call on eldset ds birthday.
I havent spoken to him since early Sep.
He went 2.5 months without speaking to the kids and onloy recently rezponded after I got his mother / nephew involved.
His sis is lying to him, poisining him against me and there isnt a thing I can do about it.
I dont know what to feel, who to hate, it is cruishing,
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Where do i "put" my feelings, toxic sil and sis, dh with amnesia , just so , so sad ...
catfourfeet · 24/11/2012 23:20
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