Reading another thread has prompted me to post. I would very much appreciate people's opinions on my situation.
I've been seeing gf for 4 months. We're both women. She's got a very close group of friends (including her ex of 10 years) who I haven't met yet- she knows I'm uncomfortable with this and now I write it down I'm feeling crap again. Anyway, back to xmas. Last year I spent it alone and it was pretty shitty. I has a few offers but none that would have been pleasant. My dad is in a very unhealthy marriage so going there is a no no. This year's options not looking good. So I assked gf what she was doing- xmas eve to family with her good mate (who's an ex from decades ago and now also gay) then spending xmas day with him too.
Aibu to feel fed up? I'm not a Christian, no kids, so xmas isn't special as such but I feel the pressure and feel like a freak actually because I'm at a loose end. I have lovely friends but they have traditions and I don't want to impose or haven't been asked.
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joblot · 19/11/2012 17:26
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