Met DP 5 years ago through an online game. We both had 1 DC from previous relationships. Found out he had been agoraphobic for 7 years and hadn't been out, was living with his parents. We talked just as friends on and off and gradually got closer, i convinced him to meet up with me for a drink, it was a massive huge step for him and his sister and her bf had to come with him.
Anyway, we hit it off and a year later he moved in with me (3 years ago) Watching him with his DD after he moved in was amazing, they went all kinds of places with my DD and me. DP was so confident, I was incredibly proud of him.
Fast forward to now... he hates going out, unless it's somewhere he knows well and is comfortable there (this includes 3 places only) I learnt to drive because i thought it would help... it hasn't. He doesn't go anywhere with me and my DD. he makes excuses up and it ends up in a row or me walking out, then it taints all the day trips i go on with DD.
When his mum, DD or any of his family come to visit he will have sunbeds prior to them coming then go anywhere they want to go.
To get out of going to family events he uses me as a scape goat and for that reason i now think his family are beginning to not like me, none of them got my DD a present or card for her bday this year. They have no idea how bad DP has gotten again.
I just don't know what to do. I'm starting to feel like taking DD and running away :(
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Can any one please help me make some sense somewhere in this please?
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CherryJuice · 17/11/2012 19:33
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